Why do women consider 80% of men as unattractive?

More than likely out of that 80%, about 75% of those men have double standards. Meaning, they expect their girlfriends or their wives to look pretty but when it comes to themselves, they tell their wives to accept them as is! I don't like that about some guys and I don't want to date some guy that thinks that I should look pretty but then I have to accept him as he is? I don't think so I'm not doing that.

And a lot of these unattractive guys in that 80% tile range, they say bullshit like how they think ugly women are so disgusting and gross especially disgusting to sleep with or kiss or to date. Yeah how do you think it would feel to go out with one of those ugly guys? Fucking disgusting for me! And if you want to give insult for insult regarding a man's comments about ugly women, ugly men smell really disgusting sometimes. Like for some reason their environment? It stinks and it's really disgusting! Like they're homes and their cars especially? Oh my gosh you would not believe! But their cars more than anything, most physically unattractive guys have disgusting interiors in their cars! It may be really clean but for some reason they almost always stink really gross. Like really really gross. And then they like eat in their cars and they leave all the rappers around for months at a time! They literally smell really disgusting sometimes. It's like as if the unattractive Factor was not enough, like you have to try and put up with their smell as a girlfriend too so it's like no thank you! You want the female to smell good and wash your hair and stuff like that. Yet, when it comes to yourself, I don't smell anything good on you! I don't see you washing your hair with nice stuff. And also oh my gosh, their body smells. The scent that they give off from their bodies? Freaking disgusting sometimes. It like indefinitely almost makes you never want to go out with an ugly guy ever again! It's like they demand that I look good. But it's like look at you! Look at your face and look at your body and look at your body language and your clothes and your shoes. Like why do they look like that?

At this point, the way I see it, it would literally be an insult to be hooked up with an ugly guy. Because I would feel like after having my gorgeous boyfriend stolen, by these white women specifically, and then being told to go out with an ugly guy? That is what I call wartime. That's wartime. That's what you call declaring war with me. I mean I was really nice to ugly guys in the past. Like you wouldn't believe! I was nice to really really older men, I was really nice to ugly guys. I was nice to really really fat guys. I was really nice to a lot of people! Regardless of how they looked. Until of course I realized that someone had declared war with me. And after having all of my gorgeous boyfriend stolen, and then being told to go out with someone ugly, that made me aware of the disrespect outright that was going on to me. That's what you call war. That's not what you call somebody trying to do you a favor. That's what you call somebody trying to take your handsome prince boyfriends and then telling you to go out with that ugly reject loser guy over there who is gross and eats all the time or whatever. Like go out with that guy over there. Do you realize how big of a declaration of war that is with me? That's a really big declaration of war. It really takes a very keen eye to see that. If you are too nice and if you are too busy, you're not going to see that in fact, that right there is a declaration of work. That's not them trying to respect me. But only in like a really really naive idiot would see it like oh, good looking guy is cheap therefore you should let go of the fact that your gorgeous boyfriend was taken away and you should just let them go and get with an ugly guy. Now read that sentence out loud to yourself, and think about it again. Think about the outright fucking disrespect that you might perceive if you were mean. You know that it's true don't you? You can feel it so don't lie to me. You can feel it don't you. I know you know that it's disrespect. but you're probably going to tell me oh no no that's not disrespect. That's not them trying to battle with you. Don't fucking lie to me. Don't fucking lie to me. That's what I call a fucking straight up bullshit ass fucking lie in front of my face telling me that something like that is not fucking disrespect. And second of all, I'm still nice to ugly people or attractive people. But what's going on here is that there's a side battle. That has nothing to do with me accepting an ugly person as is or an attractive person as is. It's got nothing to do with that and if you think that it does, I'm sorry you feel that way. But for now, I am in what's called a side battle. It's a side battle with a few other enemies that I have, who want me to do that kind of thing because they are actually outright disrespecting the fuck out of me. Without making it obvious because that's how my enemies are. So nowadays what I do is just pretty much make sure to not do what my enemies want me to do. You know if they want me to go out with an ugly guy? Then I'm not going to go out with him. It's just how the side battle goes. That's just how the wartime is done. Until the wartime is over and they surrender, that kind of side battle will probably not be over with anytime soon unless of course they surrender. But with an enemy that is that disrespectful with me? More than likely they're not going to anytime soon. So I'm not either! Even if I have to carry it for ages and ages, you won't see me given. You won't. You will not be alive if I ever do give in because it won't be in your lifetime that I will give up.

Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support. I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized. he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that. he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened. he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence. i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction. after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly. things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it. we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe … our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far? this has upset me so much its hard to even function.